Manifesting What You Want

Manifesting What You Want

When it comes to manifesting something you want, how good are you at consistently thinking it’s going to manifest for you without getting discouraged?  I ask because it can be very easy to be excited about it one day, and then discouraged that it hasn’t happened yet on another day.

When it comes to the Law of Attraction you have to do your best to have a certainty that it will happen.

I always like using the following example.  When you get into your car to go somewhere you most likely never question if you’re going to get there.  Half way there you don’t turn around because you’re not there yet.  You have an expectation, a certainty that you’re going to get there.  If you can take that same certainty you have when it comes to knowing that you’re going to get to wherever you’re going, and put that feeling of certainty towards something you want to manifest, Law of Attraction can’t help but bring it to you.

Idea to help you manifest what you want

So the next time you go somewhere pause for a moment and feel that certainty, that knowing that you’re going to get there without a doubt.  Then, immediately think about something you want to manifest, and do your best to feel that same certainty, that 100% knowing that it’s going to happen for you.

It will take practice to get good at it, but once you do, be prepared to attract whatever it is you are certain about manifesting.  It’s also important to remember to let go of how or when something will manifest.

To find out more about LOA and how it can change your life, remember that I always offer a free first mini phone coaching session.

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Focusing On What You Want…

Focusing on what you want

Many people who contact me about Law of Attraction coaching can’t understand why they’re not attracting what they want.  One question I like to ask is “How often each day do you spend focusing on what you want, and why you want it?”  After a brief silence, they admit that it’s not very often.  That’s part of the problem.

Ask yourself what you want more often

How can you expect to attract what we want if we’re not deliberately focusing on what we want every day?

How often should I focus on what I want?

The next question is typically how often should I focus on what I want each day?  I then ask “How much do you want to attract “X” into your life?”  “X” could be more money, a wonderful relationship, a better job, etc.  They usually respond by saying they want to attract it 100% as soon as possible.  So the answer to how often is – VERY often!

You have to understand that you must focus on what we want, and why you want it as much as possible because the more you do that in the “right” way, the more it’s going to manifest.

Unfortunately, most people probably focus more on the lack of not having whatever it is they want – which just keeps it from manifesting.

Though I teach my clients many processes to help them focus on what they want so they can attract whatever they want, thinking about what you want in the “right” way, every day is key.  The more the better.

So if you’re reading this I’m asking you – “How often do you focus on what you are wanting?”  If it’s not every day, then do your best to start focusing on what you want more often.

Keep in mind I offer a free mini phone coaching session for free, so take me up on it.

Law of Attraction Advice Warning

Law of Attraction Advice Warning!

You have to be careful who you’re getting Law of Attraction advice from.  The other day I received a phone call from an old friend.  After catching up, she informed me that she was teaching people about the Law of Attraction.  At first I was happy for her, and that more people are learning about LOA.  However, then she went on for about 10 minutes complaining and complaining about how much money she doesn’t have, how it’s so hard to find an apartment, and other negative (low vibration) thoughts.  After our conversation (or more like her rant about what she doesn’t want) it was clear that she really doesn’t understand the Law of Attraction at all.  Because if she did, she would know that all that complaining was just setting herself up for those things to continue to be difficult for her to manifest.  In response to that, I’m asking you if you’re focusing alot on what you don’t want, instead of what you do want?

Another example of what not to do regarding Law of Attraction

As a similar story/example.  For those of you who don’t know, I am also certified as a Consulting Hypnotist.  During my training, someone in the program told me that she teaches a course part-time called “Laws of the Universe” in which she spends about 10 minutes teaching about the Law of Attraction, and then she moves on to the next topic.  First I was a little suspicious about only spending 10 minutes teaching about it.  Throughout the hypnosis training she would tell me different stories about her current life issues.  It was clear to me that she may know the basic definition of LOA, but she certainly isn’t practicing what she preaches because her current life situation would be much different, and here she is teaching people about Law of Attraction!  So I’m asking you, are you using what you know about the Law of Attraction to benefit your life?

The above stories really showed me that many people who know about, and even teach about the Law of Attraction, are not using what they know, or they don’t fully understanding it, and that reflects how their lives are.

So please ask yourself – do the people you’re learning Law of Attraction from seem to be living what they preach?  Do you really understand what the Law of Attraction  is, and are you really using what you do know to improve your life?  If not, find someone else to listen to or learn from, and start implementing their good advice into your own life.

 

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.

What Thoughts Are You Choosing?

What thoughts are you choosing?

It’s important to become very aware of what thoughts you’re choosing to think about and focus on.  It’s also important to become aware if you are letting what most people think bring you down unnecessarily?

Sometimes we buy into believing what most people talk about, and that can bring you down vibrationally.  You can tell if you feel down.

For example, if it’s raining outside when you wake up you may think “Ugh it’s raining outside, it’s going to be a gloomy, bad day.”  Or even “It’s so bad out today because it’s raining.”  When you say or think these thoughts you can feel that they lower your vibration.

Some other examples most would think could be “Oh man tomorrow is Monday, back to the grind” or “It’s so hot out it’s miserable.”

I think you get the idea of what I’m talking about.  Thinking these types of thoughts only serves to bring you down and helps to attract other experiences and circumstances to yourself that will also bring you down.  Remember that the Law of Attraction is always responding to how you’re vibrating (how you’re feeling).  So if you’re feeling down, you’re going to set yourself up to attract more experiences and circumstances that bring you down.

You can choose to improve your thoughts

Isn’t it better if it’s raining out to think “Yay, it’s raining, I get to experience rain and that’s great” or “Tomorrow is Monday, excellent, I’m looking forward to experiencing a new day!” or “It’s so hot out, I’m so thankful I get to experience what that feels like.”  You will feel the positive difference in these thoughts over the other more negative thoughts.

Do you see how you don’t have to go along with what most people proclaim, you can decide to turn those experiences into vibration raising experiences instead – it’s always a choice and I hope you decide to think on your own and go for the positive choice so that you’ll attract more positive experiences and thoughts into your life!

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.

Law of Attraction and Relationships

Law of Attraction and Relationships

Believe it or not, relationships and the Law of Attraction have alot to do with each other.  When I use the word “relationships,” to me there are three types.  (1) There’s the relationship you have with yourself; (2) the relationship(s) you have with other people, and (3) the relationship you have, or want to have, with a love interest.

Are your relationships what you want?

The thoughts and therefore the vibrations you’re putting out about all 3 types of relationships is exactly what you’re experiencing.

Have you ever even thought about the relationship you have with yourself?  Are you good to yourself, kind to yourself, or do you put yourself down?  Think about it and if need be take action to improve the relationship you have with yourself.

What about the relationships you have with other people?  Do you enjoy them, criticize them, or go out of your way to make them good?  If you think you can improve them, choose to do that.

And, of course, where are you thoughts about finding true love, or if you have found it, are you enjoying it, or complaining about it?  Make sure you’re focusing on what you want.  And, if you’re looking for your soul mate, focus on the qualities you want them to have.

If you really take the time to ask yourself the above questions, it’s a great start to finding out where your thoughts/vibrations are when it comes to relationships.

Once you’re honest with yourself about where you stand, then you can start using Law of Attraction processes to start attracting the kind of relationships you really want, in all areas of your life, including with yourself!

 

Remember I always offer a free first mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

The Thought Meter . . .

The Thought Meter

It would be so cool if there was a thought meter that would count how many thoughts we have throughout an entire day.  To take it one step further, it would be even better if the meter would print out a report at the end of the day with two columns.  Column one would be called “Negative Thoughts” and column two would be called “Positive Thoughts.”  Then, under each column it would print out what those thoughts were.  I have a feeling the “Negative Thought” column would have a lot more thoughts on it than the positive thought column!

When you stop to think about it, we’re always thinking about something. Are you usually thinking about questions like these:  why “something” went wrong? why don’t I have enough of “something”? why did this happen? why did that happen? why didn’t he do what he said he would do? why am I still doing what I don’t want to do? I’m afraid of what my future holds, I’m worried about “something”, will I ever fall in love? and on and on and on?

With all these negative thoughts running through your head all day long, it’s no surprise that all these thoughts mentioned above (and others along those lines) are still what’s manifesting for you.

Changing Your Thoughts

The good news is that you can choose to take control of your thoughts little by little, day by day, thought by thought.

One way to do this is that when you find yourself thinking a negative thought, literally ask yourself “what do I want?”  Once you know what you want (which is usually the opposite of the negative thought you were thinking) and you start focusing on what you want, then eventually what you want will become what is.  The trick is that you have to practice asking yourself that question “What do I want?” over and over.

Eventually, with practice, more and more of your thoughts will be about what you want, instead of what you don’t want.  Oh what a joyous day that will be.  If there really was a Thought Meter, wouldn’t it be wonderful if eventually the positive thought side was much greater than the negative thought side?

It sounds easy enough, but will you really do it?  I hope so!

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

 

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

The question of the day is “Do you have to know how something you want is going to manifest?”

The answer is “no!”

When it comes to working with the Law of Attraction, so many people get caught up in trying to figure out, or having to know how something they want is going to manifest that it just keeps it from happening.  This is because these types of thoughts are all about resistance, and resistance blocks manifestation.

They think thoughts like “I want to go on a cruise, but how is the money going to come?” or “I really want to buy that house, but it’s $30,000 more than I can afford” or “I want to be in a relationship, but it seems so hard to meet someone.”

The solution to having to know…

The good news is that it’s not your job to figure out how something you want is going to happen.  As hard as that may be for you to believe, it’s the truth.

Your job is to match the vibration of whatever it is you’re wanting, and then allow the Law of Attraction to deliver it without getting caught up in the how or when.

Because, once you get caught up in the how (or when), you start putting up resistance, and it’s the resistance that blocks the manifestation.

That’s why I use the processes I use with my clients (and with myself), because when you use them, you’re lessening the resistance to whatever it is you’re wanting and allowing your vibration to raise so you can match whatever it is you’re wanting.

Once you experience doing this, you really start to get it and that’s when positive changes start to occur.

It’s wonderful when you start to live your life from a Law of Attraction point of view.

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so feel free to take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.