Many people who contact about Law of Attraction coaching can’t understand why they’re not attracting what they want. One question I like to ask people is “How often each day do you spend focusing on what you want, and why you want it?” After a brief silence, they admit that it’s not very often. This is part of the problem. How can we expect to attract what we want if we’re not deliberately focusing on it every day? Then they want to know how often they should focus on what they want. Then I ask “How much do you want to attract “X” into your life?” “X” could be more money, a wonderful relationship, a better job, etc. They usually respond by saying they want to attract it in a big way. So the answer to how often is VERY often! We have to understand that we must focus on what we want, and why we want it as much as possible. Most people probably focus more on the lack of not having whatever it is they want – that just keeps it from manifesting. Though I teach my clients many processes to help them focus on what they want so they can attract it, thinking about what you want every day is key. So whoever is reading this – I’m asking you “How often do you focus on what you are wanting?”
You have to be careful who you’re getting Law of Attraction advice from. The other day I received a phone call from an old friend. After catching up, she informed me that she was teaching people about the Law of Attraction. At first I was happy for her, and that more people are learning about LOA. However, then she went on for about 10 minutes complaining and complaining about how much money she doesn’t have, how it’s so hard to find an apartment, and other negative (low vibration) thoughts. After our conversation (or more like her rant about what she doesn’t want) it was clear that she really doesn’t understand the Law of Attraction at all. Because if she did she would know that all that complaining was just setting herself up for those things to continue to be difficult for her to manifest. Are you focusing alot on what you don’t want?
A similar story. For those of you who don’t know, I am also certified as a Consulting Hypnotist. During my training, someone in the program told me that she teaches a course part-time called “Laws of the Universe” in which she spends about 10 minutes teaching about the Law of Attraction, and then she moves on to the next topic. First I was a little suspicious about only spending 10 minutes teaching about it. Throughout the hypnosis training she would tell me different stories about her current life issues. It was clear to me that she may know the basic definition of LOA, but she certainly isn’t practicing what she preaches because her current life situation would be much different, and here she is teaching people about LOA! Are you using what you know about LOA to benefit your life?
The above stories really showed me that many people “out there” who know about, and even teach LOA, are not using what they know, or they don’t fully understanding LOA, and that reflects how their lives are. So please ask yourself – do you really understand what LOA is, and are you really using what you do know to improve your life?
Choose to have a great day!
Life Coach David – firstname.lastname@example.org
Believe it or not, relationships and the Law of Attraction have alot to do with each other. When I use the word “relationships,” to me there are three types. There’s the relationship you have with yourself, the relationship(s) you have with other people, and of course the relationship you have, or want to have, with a love interest.
The thoughts and vibrations you’re putting out about all 3 types of relationships is exactly what you’re experiencing. Have you ever even thought about the relationship you have with yourself? Are you good to yourself, kind to yourself, or do you put yourself down? What about the relationships you have with other people? Do you enjoy them, criticize them, or go out of your way to make them “good?” And of course where are you thoughts about finding true love, or if you have found it, are you enjoying it, or complaining about it?
If you really take the time to ask yourself the above questions, it’s a great start to finding out where your thoughts/vibrations are when it comes to relationships.
Once you’re honest with yourself about where you stand, then you can start using Law of Attraction processes to start attracting the kind of relationships you really want, in all areas of your life, including with yourself!
Choose to have a great day!
Life Coach David
The question of the day is “Do you have to know how something you want is going to manifest?”
The answer is “no!”
When it comes to working with the Law of Attraction so many people get caught up in how something they want is going to manifest that it just keeps the resistance from blocking it. They think thoughts like “I want to go on a cruise but how is the money going to come?” or “I really want to buy that house, but it’s $30,000 more than I can afford.”
The good news is that it’s not your job to figure out the how. As hard as that may be for you to believe, it’s the truth.
Your job is to match the vibration of whatever it is you’re wanting, and then allow the Law of Attraction to deliver it without getting caught up in how or when.
Because once you get caught up in the how (or when), you start putting up resistance, and it’s the resistance that blocks the manifestation.
That’s why I use the processes I use with my clients (and with myself), because when you use them, you’re lessening the resistance to whatever it is you’re wanting and allowing your vibration to raise so you can match whatever it is you’re wanting.
Once you experience doing this, you really start to get it and that’s when positive changes start to occur.
It’s wonderful when you start to live your life from a Law of Attraction point of view.
Choose to have a great day!
Every day when we wake up we start thinking about something. Thoughts come and go throughout the day. Some of the thoughts you’re thinking are negative (low vibration), and some are positive (high vibration). Most people go about their day as a victim to their thoughts. If something good happens, they’re in a good mood and will think what a great day they’re having. If something bad happens, they’ll most likely think what a bad day they’re having. It sounds simple, but it’s the truth. But the real question is “How often is the Law of Attraction effecting your life?” Is it sometimes or only when you think about it? The answer to that is a definite “no!” The Law of Attraction is effecting your life all the time, whether you’re aware that it is or not. It’s giving you more of what you’re thinking about and focusing on regardless if it’s “good” or “bad.” If you’re thinking about it, you’re going to get more of whatever that is. The good news is that you don’t have to be a “victim” to your thoughts and emotions. You can choose to do something about it so you can feel excited about your life all the time and start attracting more of what you want. One of the ways to do that is to start to become more aware of your thoughts and when you find you’re thinking something negative, flip that thought to the opposite, positive thought. For example, if you find you’re thinking about how you don’t have enough money, start to think how you have plenty of money and get excited about how that would feel. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have excess money because Law of Attraction is responding to your higher vibration about money and will start to make things happen in your life so that you start attracting more money if your thoughts are in tune with having plenty of money.
How often are you actually thinking about what you want? I hope the answer is as often as possible. Sometimes it can be easy, because of habit, to think about all the reasons why you don’t have something you want. Or maybe you think it’s too hard or out of the question to manifest something. If you spent all the time thinking about what you don’t want and thought about what you do want, that will serve you in several ways. First of all you’ll keep yourself at a higher vibration. When you do that, you’re automatically attracting more of what you want. Secondly, by thinking more about what you do want, you’ll start attracting it into your life. I understand that sometimes it can feel hard to focus on what you want over what you don’t want. But believe me, when you deliberately start doing that, and you get used to it, you’ll really feel the difference and how important it is to do that.
What are you focusing on?
Several times a day we all check your email from our smart phones.
You press the right buttons and then it says – “Connecting…”
And your phone connects to your email, and then your email appears on the screen.
So like your smart phone is connecting to get your email, I ask you, what are you “connecting” to when it comes to your thoughts and feelings?
Are you connecting to the positive aspects of your day, your life, your experiences, what you do have? Or are you connecting to how things aren’t going your way, how much you don’t have, why is this day so bad, etc., etc., etc.?
When it comes to Law of Attraction what you’re “connecting” to at every moment is expanding and you’ll attract more of the same.
So next time you check your email and you see the word “connecting” on your phone, ask yourself “what am I connecting to?” and make sure you’re connecting to what you want, feeling good, thinking good thoughts, and start attracting more of what you want!
Enjoy connecting to the right thoughts and feelings so your day will be filled with more joy!
Life Coach David