Law of Attraction Made Easy

Law of Attraction Made Easy

So many people want a simple answer about what the Law of Attraction is.  The simple answer, and my favorite definition is “Like Energy Attracts Like Energy.”  However, what does that mean, and is it easy to make happen?

Like energy attracts like energy means that whatever it is we’re thinking about causes us to feel a certain way (typically good or bad), and that feeling is what the Law of Attraction is responding to.  For example, if someone is thinking thoughts about the lack of money in their life that’s making them feel bad about money.  Law of Attraction responds to that low feeling about money and that person will keep attracting more thoughts and experiences that demonstrate them not having enough money.

Is Law of Attraction Easy To Work With?

Now that you know the above, the Law of Attraction can be easy to work with.  However, since it’s always responding to us, we have to remember that we have to stay focused on what we want so that we attract what we want.  This can be tricky because it’s so easy to just stay focused on ‘what is’ because that’s what we’re experiencing.

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it, or just contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!

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The Best Version of Yourself…

The Best Version of Yourself…

Wouldn’t it be great if you could be the best version of yourself?  Maybe you’d like to be more confident or feel that what you say and do has value?  Maybe you’d like to make healthier choices and better decisions?  Maybe you’d like to be more relaxed and confident socially?  Maybe you’d like to be more honest?

Whatever the qualities are, we all have traits and feelings that we’d like to have fulfilled, that would make us a better person.

The good news is that we can take action so we can start becoming the best versions of ourselves.

How Do I Become The Best Version of Myself?

A great way to start becoming the best version of yourself is to make a list of all the qualities that you think would make you the best version of yourself.  Once you have your list, then daily say affirmations that support you being those qualities.

For example, let’s say that on your list you have these qualities written down: “more confident, calmer and more social at parties, feel happier, feel like I have value, be my ideal weight, do work that I love.”

To affirm these wonderful qualities that you’d like to have, simply start by saying out loud, or thinking: “I am willing to be more confident” “I am willing to be calmer and more social at parties” “I am willing to feel happier” ” I am willing to feel like I have value” “I am willing to be my ideal weight” “I am willing to do work that I love.”

By affirming these statements every day, they start getting into your subconscious mind.  Once they are firmly planted there, you will start noticing at some point that you do feel more how you want, and you are becoming more like you want to be.

So spend some time making your list of what the best version of yourself would be, and then enjoy affirming those qualities every day.

Here’s to you becoming the best version of yourself that you can be!

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!

Law of Attraction and Friends

Law of Attraction and Friends

People always ask me if they are trying to change by improving how they think and feel, do they have to let go of their friends who are more negative?  The answer to this is yes and no.  Obviously we can’t run from everyone because even though some people we know may be more negative, they may still have some good qualities we like about them.  However, that being said, there may be some people we know who really are “toxic” and are so negative that it would be a good idea to greatly distance ourselves from them.

Solutions Regarding Friends

A good idea when it comes to people we don’t want to totally distance ourselves from is to just limit our time with them.  Maybe we only spend an hour with them instead of 3 hours.  Or, maybe when we call them to chat if the conversation starts to veer towards negativity, we do our best to change the subject.

The reason for all this is because when it comes to the Law of Attraction, since it’s always responding to us, giving us more circumstances and situations that match our vibration, we want to spend more time at a higher vibration.  A higher vibration feels good and that’s where we want to be as much as possible.  When we keep ourselves at a higher vibration then we attract more experiences that are high vibration experiences.  We’ll even attract people who are more positive, and some of our friends who are more low vibration will fade away because they can tell you’re not a match with them anymore.  So that’s why it’s important to spend more time with your more positive (high vibration) friends and less time with your more negative (low vibration) friends.

It’s also important to know that once we know how to deliberately keep ourselves at a raised vibration, lower vibration people won’t effect us as much because we’re feeling too good.

Always remember I offer a free first mini phone coaching session.

True Happiness

True Happiness and Law of Attraction

Did you know that true happiness comes from within – it’s not circumstantial?  Of course when something good happens for us, it can make us feel happy in the moment.  But, after a short amount of time the high from that wears off.

However, if we learn how to be truly happy from within, and we are really feeling that way, Law of Attraction can’t help but bring us circumstances and experiences that support us feeling happy.

So the next time you realize you’re not feeling happy, you have to do something about it!

What can you do to feel happy?

There are several things we can do to deliberately help ourselves feel happy.  Some examples are:

  • Reach for better thoughts;
  • do something fun;
  • exercise;
  • go to the mall;
  • call a good friend and catch up;
  • focus on something you want and feel how good it would feel to have it.

Taking control of your happiness without it depending on outside factors feels so good and really makes a positive difference.  Once you do that, not only will you feel better in general, but you’ll really notice how you are more in control of being happy than you thought.

Remember that I always offer a free mini phone coaching session.

Law of Attraction and Manifesting

Law of Attraction and Manifesting What You Want

We all want to manifest something.  It may be a better job, a new job, a relationship, a car, a dream home, or even feeling happier.  But how does the Law of Attraction play a part in that?  The answer is that it’s always playing a part!

You have to understand that the Law of Attraction is always responding to you 24/7.  What that means is that it’s always responding to the feeling (vibration) you’re offering in general, and about specific things.

Examples of Law of Attraction In Action

For example, if you want to attract a wonderful relationship but you’re constantly walking around with thoughts like: “why is it so hard to meet someone” or “I’m never going to meet someone special” or “how come my friends are all with someone, but I’m not?”  These and other questions of doubt or lack means you’re putting out negative energy (a/k/a low vibration) about meeting someone.

The Law of Attraction is just matching that vibration and saying “ok, here’s more of it being hard to meet someone.”  And as a result you’ll have more experiences that support that (instead of what you want, which is to meet someone special).

However, the goods news it that if you’re walking around thinking more positive thoughts about meeting someone like: “I can’t wait to be in a wonderful, loving relationship” or “I’m so excited about meeting someone special” then you’re offering a good, positive feeling about it (a high vibration), and Law of Attraction will respond by eventually or suddenly you’ll meet someone “out of the blue”, or a friend will suggest someone they thought of you could date.

The trick is to not get caught up in when or how you’ll meet someone, because when you do that it brings in the doubt again.

It’s important to think about what you’re focusing on so that you attract what you want, instead of more of what you don’t want!

Remember I always offer a free first mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.

Law of Attraction Advice Warning

Law of Attraction Advice Warning!

You have to be careful who you’re getting Law of Attraction advice from.  The other day I received a phone call from an old friend.  After catching up, she informed me that she was teaching people about the Law of Attraction.  At first I was happy for her, and that more people are learning about LOA.  However, then she went on for about 10 minutes complaining and complaining about how much money she doesn’t have, how it’s so hard to find an apartment, and other negative (low vibration) thoughts.  After our conversation (or more like her rant about what she doesn’t want) it was clear that she really doesn’t understand the Law of Attraction at all.  Because if she did, she would know that all that complaining was just setting herself up for those things to continue to be difficult for her to manifest.  In response to that, I’m asking you if you’re focusing alot on what you don’t want, instead of what you do want?

Another example of what not to do regarding Law of Attraction

As a similar story/example.  For those of you who don’t know, I am also certified as a Consulting Hypnotist.  During my training, someone in the program told me that she teaches a course part-time called “Laws of the Universe” in which she spends about 10 minutes teaching about the Law of Attraction, and then she moves on to the next topic.  First I was a little suspicious about only spending 10 minutes teaching about it.  Throughout the hypnosis training she would tell me different stories about her current life issues.  It was clear to me that she may know the basic definition of LOA, but she certainly isn’t practicing what she preaches because her current life situation would be much different, and here she is teaching people about Law of Attraction!  So I’m asking you, are you using what you know about the Law of Attraction to benefit your life?

The above stories really showed me that many people who know about, and even teach about the Law of Attraction, are not using what they know, or they don’t fully understanding it, and that reflects how their lives are.

So please ask yourself – do the people you’re learning Law of Attraction from seem to be living what they preach?  Do you really understand what the Law of Attraction  is, and are you really using what you do know to improve your life?  If not, find someone else to listen to or learn from, and start implementing their good advice into your own life.

 

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.

What Thoughts Are You Choosing?

What thoughts are you choosing?

It’s important to become very aware of what thoughts you’re choosing to think about and focus on.  It’s also important to become aware if you are letting what most people think bring you down unnecessarily?

Sometimes we buy into believing what most people talk about, and that can bring you down vibrationally.  You can tell if you feel down.

For example, if it’s raining outside when you wake up you may think “Ugh it’s raining outside, it’s going to be a gloomy, bad day.”  Or even “It’s so bad out today because it’s raining.”  When you say or think these thoughts you can feel that they lower your vibration.

Some other examples most would think could be “Oh man tomorrow is Monday, back to the grind” or “It’s so hot out it’s miserable.”

I think you get the idea of what I’m talking about.  Thinking these types of thoughts only serves to bring you down and helps to attract other experiences and circumstances to yourself that will also bring you down.  Remember that the Law of Attraction is always responding to how you’re vibrating (how you’re feeling).  So if you’re feeling down, you’re going to set yourself up to attract more experiences and circumstances that bring you down.

You can choose to improve your thoughts

Isn’t it better if it’s raining out to think “Yay, it’s raining, I get to experience rain and that’s great” or “Tomorrow is Monday, excellent, I’m looking forward to experiencing a new day!” or “It’s so hot out, I’m so thankful I get to experience what that feels like.”  You will feel the positive difference in these thoughts over the other more negative thoughts.

Do you see how you don’t have to go along with what most people proclaim, you can decide to turn those experiences into vibration raising experiences instead – it’s always a choice and I hope you decide to think on your own and go for the positive choice so that you’ll attract more positive experiences and thoughts into your life!

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.