People always ask me if they are trying to change by improving how they think and feel, do they have to let go of their friends who are more negative. The answer to this is yes and no! Obviously we can’t run from everyone because even though some people we know may be more negative, they may still have some good qualities we like about them. However, that being said, there may be some people we know who really are “toxic” and are so negative that it would be a good idea to greatly distance ourselves from them. A good idea when it comes to people we don’t want to totally distance ourselves from is to just limit our time with them. Maybe we only spend an hour with them instead of 3 hours. Or, maybe when we call them to chat if the conversation starts to veer towards negativity we do our best to change the subject. The reason for all this is because when it comes to the Law of Attraction, since it’s always responding to us, giving us more circumstances and situations that match our vibration, we want to spend more time at a higher vibration. A higher vibration feels good and that’s where we want to be as much as possible. When we keep ourselves at a higher vibration then we attract more experiences that are high vibration experiences. We’ll even attract people who are more positive, and some of our friends who are more low vibration will fade away because they can tell you’re not a match with them anymore. It’s also important to know that once we know how to deliberately keep ourselves at a raised vibration, lower vibration people won’t effect us as much because we’re feeling too good.
This morning I passed a large sign that said “It’s cold and flu season…”
Thousands of people pass this sign every day.
It made me realize that thousands of people every day are told, “It’s cold and flu season..” and as such are probably attracting that to themselves and getting sick.
Wouldn’t it be amazing if there were signs posted that said, “IT’S PERFECT HEALTH SEASON.”
Just think how wonderful it would be for everyone to be getting that message instead!
I’m sure there would be much less people getting the cold and flu if they were thinking “it’s perfect health season.”
I’m choosing to think “it’s perfect health season” and I hope you choose to think that as well.
Here’s to a perfect health season all year long!
Choose to have a great day.
Life Coach David
I was thinking about it the other day that someone I know spent about 3 hours being mad at a situation that she couldn’t control. But if she knew how, she could control how long she stayed mad.
It made me realize that she literally wasted 3 hours of her life that she can’t get back being mad, and in return Law of Attraction will give her more to be mad about.
I realized that once a day is over we can’t get that time back, so what’s the point of choosing to be mad, angry, jealous, and all the other lower vibration thoughts and emotions? I’m not suggesting when something happens you don’t feel these emotions, but once you know how to use the Law of Attraction, you don’t allow yourself to stay there for too long!
So with each passing second, minute, hour, and day, are you spending your time with higher vibration thoughts like love, joy, happiness, celebration, etc., OR are you spending your time with the lower vibration thoughts and feelings?
The choice is up to you, but of course I hope you choose like I do to spend your time with higher vibration thoughts and feelings so that the Law of Attraction will give you more of that into your life.
Wishing you a high vibration day 🙂