An alarm attached to your thoughts?

An alarm attached to your thoughts?

What you focus on and give your attention to, is what you’re going to attract.  A good way to find out if you’re focusing on what you want is to ask yourself “If an alarm was attached to my thoughts and it went off every time I thought about something negative, how often would it be going off?”

For most people, that alarm would be going off alot!  What about for you?  That answer gives you a good idea of if you’re focusing on what you want or not.

How to stop that thought alarm from going off.

One easy way to help you focus more on what you want (and stop that alarm from going off) is when you catch yourself thinking about what you don’t want, just ask yourself “What do I want?” about whatever it was you were thinking about, and then start focusing on that.

Once you know what you want, do your best to stay focused on it so that you can attract it.  The more you focus on what you want, the more you will attract it, it’s the law.

It’s also a great idea to randomly get used to asking yourself “What do I want?” about various areas of your life because it forces you to think about what you want, over what you don’t want.

So don’t let that thought alarm go off – do your best to focus on what you want, what you want, what you want.

Remember, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.  Just go to



Focusing On What You Want…

Focusing on what you want

Many people who contact me about Law of Attraction coaching can’t understand why they’re not attracting what they want.  One question I like to ask is “How often each day do you spend focusing on what you want, and why you want it?”  After a brief silence, they admit that it’s not very often.  That’s part of the problem.

Ask yourself what you want more often

How can you expect to attract what we want if we’re not deliberately focusing on what we want every day?

How often should I focus on what I want?

The next question is typically how often should I focus on what I want each day?  I then ask “How much do you want to attract “X” into your life?”  “X” could be more money, a wonderful relationship, a better job, etc.  They usually respond by saying they want to attract it 100% as soon as possible.  So the answer to how often is – VERY often!

You have to understand that you must focus on what we want, and why you want it as much as possible because the more you do that in the “right” way, the more it’s going to manifest.

Unfortunately, most people probably focus more on the lack of not having whatever it is they want – which just keeps it from manifesting.

Though I teach my clients many processes to help them focus on what they want so they can attract whatever they want, thinking about what you want in the “right” way, every day is key.  The more the better.

So if you’re reading this I’m asking you – “How often do you focus on what you are wanting?”  If it’s not every day, then do your best to start focusing on what you want more often.

Keep in mind I offer a free mini phone coaching session for free, so take me up on it.

True Happiness

True Happiness and Law of Attraction

Did you know that true happiness comes from within – it’s not circumstantial?  Of course when something good happens for us, it can make us feel happy in the moment.  But, after a short amount of time the high from that wears off.

However, if we learn how to be truly happy from within, and we are really feeling that way, Law of Attraction can’t help but bring us circumstances and experiences that support us feeling happy.

So the next time you realize you’re not feeling happy, you have to do something about it!

What can you do to feel happy?

There are several things we can do to deliberately help ourselves feel happy.  Some examples are:

  • Reach for better thoughts;
  • do something fun;
  • exercise;
  • go to the mall;
  • call a good friend and catch up;
  • focus on something you want and feel how good it would feel to have it.

Taking control of your happiness without it depending on outside factors feels so good and really makes a positive difference.  Once you do that, not only will you feel better in general, but you’ll really notice how you are more in control of being happy than you thought.

Remember that I always offer a free mini phone coaching session.

Do you want to be really wealthy?

Do you want to be really wealthy?

When it comes to being wealthy, most people immediately think about financial wealth, which is what you probably thought I was talking about.

However, if you dig a little deeper, do you really think that financial wealth is what keeps you happy?  I think true wealth is when you’re genuinely in a state of joy and happiness.  I think the happiest people are the wealthiest, and those who are truly joyous on a day-to-day basis and who consciously keep their thoughts in check to stay that way.

Of course it’s wonderful to be financially wealthy as well, and I’d choose to have both a joyous and a financially wealthy life!  But I know for sure that without living in joy as much as possible, no amount of money and no “thing” can really fulfill my life as much as joy can.

Every day my intent is to have a joyous day and I take responsibility for that because I know I can choose that.

Are you aware of keeping your day as joyous a possible so you can live a truly wealthy life?

Here’s a fun way to invite more joy into your life.  Think and focus on all the things in your life that have brought you joy in your past, and present- this will invite more joy into your life.

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to to schedule it.

You can attract what you want!