Law of Attraction Advice Warning

Law of Attraction Advice Warning!

You have to be careful who you’re getting Law of Attraction advice from.  The other day I received a phone call from an old friend.  After catching up, she informed me that she was teaching people about the Law of Attraction.  At first I was happy for her, and that more people are learning about LOA.  However, then she went on for about 10 minutes complaining and complaining about how much money she doesn’t have, how it’s so hard to find an apartment, and other negative (low vibration) thoughts.  After our conversation (or more like her rant about what she doesn’t want) it was clear that she really doesn’t understand the Law of Attraction at all.  Because if she did, she would know that all that complaining was just setting herself up for those things to continue to be difficult for her to manifest.  In response to that, I’m asking you if you’re focusing alot on what you don’t want, instead of what you do want?

Another example of what not to do regarding Law of Attraction

As a similar story/example.  For those of you who don’t know, I am also certified as a Consulting Hypnotist.  During my training, someone in the program told me that she teaches a course part-time called “Laws of the Universe” in which she spends about 10 minutes teaching about the Law of Attraction, and then she moves on to the next topic.  First I was a little suspicious about only spending 10 minutes teaching about it.  Throughout the hypnosis training she would tell me different stories about her current life issues.  It was clear to me that she may know the basic definition of LOA, but she certainly isn’t practicing what she preaches because her current life situation would be much different, and here she is teaching people about Law of Attraction!  So I’m asking you, are you using what you know about the Law of Attraction to benefit your life?

The above stories really showed me that many people who know about, and even teach about the Law of Attraction, are not using what they know, or they don’t fully understanding it, and that reflects how their lives are.

So please ask yourself – do the people you’re learning Law of Attraction from seem to be living what they preach?  Do you really understand what the Law of Attraction  is, and are you really using what you do know to improve your life?  If not, find someone else to listen to or learn from, and start implementing their good advice into your own life.

 

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.

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Law of Attraction and Resistance

Law of Attraction and Resistance

People interested in the Law of Attraction always want to know what keeps something they want from manifesting?

There are several answers, but the main thing is resistance keeps what you’re wanting from manifesting.  I like to explain resistance like this.  Imagine there’s an invisible wall in front of you – this wall is resistance.  Everything you want is coming towards you but the wall of resistance is blocking it from coming into your experience.

Where is resistance coming from?

One place resistance is found, that keeps that imaginary wall strong, is in the questions that most people get caught up in like “how is this going to come to me, I’m asking for too much?” or the ever popular “Why is it taking so long for this to manifest?”

Once you get caught up in those types of questions, it brings your focus on the lack of what you’re wanting.  Knowing that the Law of Attraction is always matching what you’re focusing on, you’re just going to get more of the same – more lack.

A good way to look at it is that when you get in your car to drive somewhere you know with certainty that you’re going to get there.  You don’t turn around half way there thinking you better go back home because you’re not there yet!  The same holds true for when you want to manifest something.  You focus on the wanting of it without getting caught up in when or how it will arrive (the resistance).

Once you work with a Law of Attraction life coach you’ll learn processes that lower the resistance to what you’re wanting (and will knock down that wall of resistance mentioned above), and keep you focused on what you want.  When you focus on what you want, and allow it to come, it will!

What are you focusing on – thoughts that will allow what you want or thoughts that will block what you want?

Remember that I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

The question of the day is “Do you have to know how something you want is going to manifest?”

The answer is “no!”

When it comes to working with the Law of Attraction, so many people get caught up in trying to figure out, or having to know how something they want is going to manifest that it just keeps it from happening.  This is because these types of thoughts are all about resistance, and resistance blocks manifestation.

They think thoughts like “I want to go on a cruise, but how is the money going to come?” or “I really want to buy that house, but it’s $30,000 more than I can afford” or “I want to be in a relationship, but it seems so hard to meet someone.”

The solution to having to know…

The good news is that it’s not your job to figure out how something you want is going to happen.  As hard as that may be for you to believe, it’s the truth.

Your job is to match the vibration of whatever it is you’re wanting, and then allow the Law of Attraction to deliver it without getting caught up in the how or when.

Because, once you get caught up in the how (or when), you start putting up resistance, and it’s the resistance that blocks the manifestation.

That’s why I use the processes I use with my clients (and with myself), because when you use them, you’re lessening the resistance to whatever it is you’re wanting and allowing your vibration to raise so you can match whatever it is you’re wanting.

Once you experience doing this, you really start to get it and that’s when positive changes start to occur.

It’s wonderful when you start to live your life from a Law of Attraction point of view.

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so feel free to take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

 

Law of Attraction in Real Life

Law of Attraction in Real Life

A lot of people resonate with the Law of Attraction but they don’t know how to use it in their daily lives.  I say this because I get a lot of calls/emails from people who have watched The Secret, or heard information about the Law of Attraction, and it makes sense to them. However, even though it makes sense to them then they’re like “now what?”

It’s very easy to understand the basic definition of Law of Attraction which is “like energy attracts like energy.” However, even if you understand that it doesn’t mean you know what to do to attract what you want into your life.

Attracting what you want

Attracting what you want is for both material things and fulfilling emotional needs.  It’s also important to know how to deliberately keep yourself feeling good, so you’ll attract more feel good experiences into your life.

The good news is that once you work with an experienced Law of Attraction life coach, you’ll find out about processes and techniques that you can use daily to keep the Law of Attraction working in your favor. It’s kind of like when you read a self-help book but you don’t actually do what the author says, so you don’t really benefit from the information. The same holds true with the Law of Attraction. You can know about it, and even agree with it, but until you practice various processes that help keep you focused and excited about what you are wanting, you won’t benefit from it.  I say this because though there is alot of great information out there about Law of Attraction, most of it doesn’t give you real examples on how to get it to work in your favor.

For example, a client of mine was looking to make a career change but nothing was happening. She even knew where she wanted to work. Then she started using some of the processes she learned, and within a few weeks “out of the blue” a customer of hers revealed where he worked, and it turned out to be the exact place that she wanted to work! She told her customer that, and he didn’t hesitate to give her vital information on how to get the job she wanted.

Of course this didn’t just happen “out of the blue.”  By doing the processes she lessened her resistance to what she was wanting, and as a result Law of Attraction made it happen. Law of Attraction is happening in your real life every day. The question is, are you attracting what you want, or what you don’t want?

If you’re attracting what you don’t want and/or want to know how to handle life situations in the best way possible, it’s time you learn how to start attracting what you do want!

The good news is that it just gets better when you live your life from a Law of Attraction point-of-view because you feel happier and you start attracting what you want (instead of what you don’t want).

If you want to experience a free mini phone coaching session, please contact me so we can schedule it.  Thanks.

Enjoying life…

Enjoying Life

Are you one of those people who thinks that one of the reasons we’re here is to enjoy life?

I don’t know about you, but I am!

It can be easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget that experiencing joy is a right that we all have.  So as a reminder, I think it’s important to do deliberately do something every day that you enjoy, that’s fun, and/or that makes you feel good.

No matter how busy you are, there’s something you can do to have a joyful experience. At a minimum you can laugh about something funny that you experienced in the past. I like doing that because when I think of something funny that happened to me, I instantly start laughing again about it and it feels good. One of my experiences that I like to think about is the time that I went with my friend Lynn to a serious movie.  We were in a fun mood and were laughing throughout the movie at scenes that weren’t supposed to be funny!  No one else in the theater knew why we were laughing, but we just were and it made it so much fun.

Of course if you have more time, just doing something you consider fun is a great way to experience joy like hiking, painting, exercising, etc.

Hopefully this post is a reminder to go out of your way to have fun, to laugh, to do something you enjoy so that you can enjoy your life. And remember, when it comes to the Law of Attraction, the more you do to experience joy, the more joyful experiences and circumstances you’ll attract!

So go enjoy doing something and reap the benefits!

I always offer a free mini phone coaching session so if you want to schedule that, just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com

 

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Life Coach David

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Watch Out For Resistance

Watch out for resistance

When it comes to manifesting what you want, resistance is the culprit for it not showing up.  Resistance is all the doubt, worry, and fear that comes up when we think about something we want to attract.

Many times we can think positively about something that we want, but if it doesn’t happen when we think it should, that’s when the resistant thoughts start coming in.

What are resistant thoughts?

Some of the resistant thoughts that come up could be: “how is this going to happen, I knew it was too much to ask for?” or “why is it taking so long to manifest?” or “what if I don’t have enough money to go on vacation?”

Once you allow yourself to think thoughts like that, you’re right back where you started – attracting it not to come because you’re keeping yourself in a low vibration about it all!

That’s why it’s so important to have Law of Attraction processes at your beck and call so you can use them to keep the positive vibration flowing about whatever it is you want to manifest.

We have to remember that it’s not our job to focus on the “how” or the “when” something will manifest for us.  Out job is to focus on what we want, and stay excited about it coming.  Do your best to trust that whatever you want is on its way.

If you want to experience a free Law of Attraction phone coaching session, let me know and we’ll schedule it.