Law of Attraction and Relationships

Believe it or not, relationships and the Law of Attraction have alot to do with each other.  When I use the word “relationships,” to me there are three types.  There’s the relationship you have with yourself, the relationship(s) you have with other people, and of course the relationship you have, or want to have, with a love interest.

The thoughts and vibrations you’re putting out about all 3 types of relationships is exactly what you’re experiencing.  Have you ever even thought about the relationship you have with yourself?  Are you good to yourself, kind to yourself, or do you put yourself down?  What about the relationships you have with other people?  Do you enjoy them, criticize them, or go out of your way to make them “good?”  And of course where are you thoughts about finding true love, or if you have found it, are you enjoying it, or complaining about it?

If you really take the time to ask yourself the above questions, it’s a great start to finding out where your thoughts/vibrations are when it comes to relationships.

Once you’re honest with yourself about where you stand, then you can start using Law of Attraction processes to start attracting the kind of relationships you really want, in all areas of your life, including with yourself!

Choose to have a great day!

Life Coach David

The Thought Meter . . .

It would be so cool if there was a thought meter that would count how many thoughts we have throughout an entire day.  To take it one step further, it would be even better if the meter would print out a report at the end of the day with two columns.  Column one would be called “Negative Thoughts” and column two would be called “Positive Thoughts.”  Then under each column it would print out what those thoughts were.  I have a feeling the “Negative Thought” column would have a lot more thoughts on it than the positive thought column!

When you stop to think about it, we’re always thinking about something. Are you usually thinking about questions like these:  why “something” went wrong? why don’t I have enough of “something”? why did this happen? why did that happen? why didn’t he do what he said he would do? why am I still doing what I don’t want to do? I’m afraid of what my future holds, I’m worried about “something”, will I ever fall in love? and on and on and on!

With all these negative thoughts running through your head all day long, it’s no surprise that all these thoughts mentioned above (and others along those lines) are still what’s manifesting for you.

The good news is that you can take control of your thoughts little by little, day by day, thought by thought.  One way to do this is that when you find yourself thinking a negative thought, literally ask yourself “what do I want?”  Once you know what you want (which is usually the opposite of the negative thought) and you start focusing on what you want, then eventually what you want will become what is.  The trick is that you have to practice asking yourself that question “What do I want?” over and over.  Eventually, with practice, more and more of your thoughts will be about what you want, instead of what you don’t want.  Oh what a joyous day that will be.

It sounds easy enough, but will you really do it?  I hope so!

Choose to have a great day.

Life Coach David

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

The question of the day is “Do you have to know how something you want is going to manifest?”

The answer is “no!”

When it comes to working with the Law of Attraction so many people get caught up in how something they want is going to manifest that it just keeps the resistance from blocking it.  They think thoughts like “I want to go on a cruise but how is the money going to come?” or “I really want to buy that house, but it’s $30,000 more than I can afford.”

The good news is that it’s not your job to figure out the how.  As hard as that may be for you to believe, it’s the truth.

Your job is to match the vibration of whatever it is you’re wanting, and then allow the Law of Attraction to deliver it without getting caught up in how or when.

Because once you get caught up in the how (or when), you start putting up resistance, and it’s the resistance that blocks the manifestation.

That’s why I use the processes I use with my clients (and with myself), because when you use them, you’re lessening the resistance to whatever it is you’re wanting and allowing your vibration to raise so you can match whatever it is you’re wanting.

Once you experience doing this, you really start to get it and that’s when positive changes start to occur.

It’s wonderful when you start to live your life from a Law of Attraction point of view.

Choose to have a great day!

Law of Attraction talk…

Every day when we wake up we start thinking about something.  Thoughts come and go throughout the day.  Some of the thoughts you’re thinking are negative (low vibration), and some are positive (high vibration).  Most people go about their day as a victim to their thoughts.  If something good happens, they’re in a good mood and will think what a great day they’re having.  If something bad happens, they’ll most likely think what a bad day they’re having.  It sounds simple, but it’s the truth.  But the real question is “How often is the Law of Attraction effecting your life?”  Is it sometimes or only when you think about it?  The answer to that is a definite “no!”  The Law of Attraction is effecting your life all the time, whether you’re aware that it is or not.  It’s giving you more of what you’re thinking about and focusing on regardless if it’s “good” or “bad.”  If you’re thinking about it, you’re going to get more of whatever that is.  The good news is that you don’t have to be a “victim” to your thoughts and emotions.  You can choose to do something about it so you can feel excited about your life all the time and start attracting more of what you want.  One of the ways to do that is to start to become more aware of your thoughts and when you find you’re thinking something negative, flip that thought to the opposite, positive thought.  For example, if you find you’re thinking about how you don’t have enough money, start to think how you have plenty of money and get excited about how that would feel.  It doesn’t matter if you don’t have excess money because Law of Attraction is responding to your higher vibration about money and will start to make things happen in your life so that you start attracting more money if your thoughts are in tune with having plenty of money.

What do you want?

How often are you actually thinking about what you want?  I hope the answer is as often as possible.  Sometimes it can be easy, because of habit, to think about all the reasons why you don’t have something you want.  Or maybe you think it’s too hard or out of the question to manifest something.  If you spent all the time thinking about what you don’t want and thought about what you do want, that will serve you in several ways.  First of all you’ll keep yourself at a higher vibration.  When you do that, you’re automatically attracting more of what you want.  Secondly, by thinking more about what you do want, you’ll start attracting it into your life.  I understand that sometimes it can feel hard to focus on what you want over what you don’t want.  But believe me, when you deliberately start doing that, and you get used to it, you’ll really feel the difference and how important it is to do that.

What are you focusing on?

Allow or Continue Blocking?

It’s not very often that my computer reminds me about the Law of Attraction.

However, recently when I go to a website a window pops up on the upper right hand corner of the screen and there are two buttons.  One says “Allow” and the other one says “Continue Blocking.”

I love that my computer is now asking me this.  Not because of the reason why the computer is asking me, but because it reminds me to ask myself “am I allowing or blocking what I want to manifest?”  And of course I always remind myself to think “I allow all that I want.”  Whenever I think that I feel a sense of calm.

It’s vital that we always do our best to allow what we want to manifest.  There are several ways to allow.  One easy way is to simply think about and focus on things that make you feel good.  When you do this you are offering little resistance and the opposite of resistance is allowing.

I hope you are also choosing to “Allow” instead of “Continue Blocking.”

Life Coach David

p.s.  Contact me to schedule a free mini Law of Attraction phone coaching session at info@lifecoachdavid.com.

Law of Attraction in Real Life

A lot of people resonate with the Law of Attraction but they don’t know how to use it in their daily lives. I get a lot of calls/emails from people who have watched The Secret, or heard information about the Law of Attraction, and it makes sense to them. However, even though it makes sense to them, then they’re like “now what?”

It’s very easy to understand the basic definition of Law of Attraction which is “like energy attracts like energy.” However, even if you understand that, it doesn’t mean you know what to do to attract what you want into your life.

Attracting what you want is for both material things, as well as knowing how to deliberately keep yourself feeling good, so you’ll attract more feel good experiences into your life.  It’s also about making better decisions and handling life situations in the best way possible.

The good news is that once you work with an experienced Law of Attraction life coach, you’ll find out about processes and techniques that you can use daily to keep the Law of Attraction working in your favor. It’s kind of like when you read a self-help book but you don’t actually do what the author says, so you don’t really benefit from the information. The same holds true with the Law of Attraction. You can know about it, and even agree with it, but until you practice various processes that help keep you focused and excited about what you are wanting, you won’t benefit from it.

For example, a client of mine was looking to make a career change but nothing was happening. She even knew where she wanted to work. Then she started using some of the processes she learned, and within a few weeks “out of the blue” a customer of hers revealed where he worked, and it turned out to be the exact place that she wanted to work! She told her customer that, and he didn’t hesitate to give her vital information on how to get the job she wanted.

Of course this didn’t just happen “out of the blue.”  By doing the processes, she lessened her resistance to what she was wanting, and as a result Law of Attraction made it happen. Law of Attraction is happening in your real life every day. The question is, are you attracting what you want, or what you don’t want?

If you’re attracting what you don’t want and/or want to know how to handle life situations int he best way possible, it’s time you learn how to start attracting what you do want! The good news is that It just gets better when you live your life from a Law of Attraction point-of-view.

Choose to have a great day.

Life Coach David