Loneliness and the Law of Attraction

Loneliness and the Law of Attraction

Sometimes when we are feeling lonely, it’s very easy to stay stuck in that feeling.  We remind ourselves how lonely we are, how bad it feels, how unsatisfying life can be, etc.  True to the nature of the Law of Attraction like thoughts attract like thoughts.  Therefore, the more we focus on how lonely we are, the more lonely we will feel because the more we’ll attract other thoughts about being lonely.  What a dreadful place to be in – an endless loop of thoughts keeping us in the low vibration of loneliness.

There Is A Way Out Of Loneliness

There is a way out of loneliness and it starts with a thought.  Yes, just one simple thought can be the open door to a better feeling place.  So what is the magic thought?  It would go something like this “Even though I’m feeling lonely right now, I know that I can think of something I like doing and why I like doing it.”  By deliberately doing this, you’ll start to feel better.  For example, say you’re someone who enjoys hiking.  Simply think about all the reasons you enjoy it.  Maybe it feels good to be out in nature, or maybe seeing and hearing the birds and the other little critters along the way puts a smile on your face, or maybe passing by and saying hello to fellow hikers gives you a sense of community, or maybe it’s all of the above?  Whatever it is, deliberately thinking of activities you enjoy, and why you enjoy them will help you to feel better overall.  Once you start feeling better, from that improved place, then you can deliberately choose to take action and go do something enjoyable to cancel out the loneliness.  Maybe you’ll get inspired to call a friend and ask them to join you for tea, or maybe you’ll go to the book store and catch up on the latest books that appeal to you, or maybe you’ll go to the gym.

So the next time you feel lonely, remember that your thoughts are the open door out of loneliness into satisfaction.

I always offer a free mini phone coaching session, just contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com or call me at 973-992-1040 to schedule it.

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Law of Attraction And The Loss Of A Pet

Law of Attraction And The Loss Of A Pet

When we adopt a pet and care for it, become friends with it, love it, play with it, enjoy its company, etc., we’re not thinking about that sad day when it has to leave us and cross the rainbow bridge.

Recently, I lost my angel Pebbles.  We adopted her when she was just 3 months old.  she was 13 when she passed.  People tell me that was a long life and to be happy for all those years we got to enjoy her and care for her.  13 years is a long time, but it doesn’t seem long enough.  Thinking back, it’s amazing how fast those years went.

Now that I’m somewhat recovered from the experience, I can write about it to share how the Law of Attraction helped me get through, and continues to help me get through this tough experience.  Knowing about the Law of Attraction not only helps us attract what we want, but can also help us get through a difficult time in the best way possible.

I guess we typically don’t think of the Law of Attraction and the loss of a pet going together.  However, after I allowed myself to react to the sadness of it all, I realized that I had to start pulling myself up out of it.  I knew it would take time, but I slowly started reaching for better thoughts.  I also realized that when I thought about the day she passed compared to thinking about her cute qualities, that thinking about her cute qualities and fun times we had together made me feel better.  So I started to deliberately focus on the cute things she did, how she would always greet me with lots of kisses whenever I cam home, etc.

It didn’t happen over night, but little by little, these better thoughts helped me start to feel at my more normal raised vibration.  I had to remember that like thoughts attract like thoughts so the more I thought about how much joy she brought, the more thoughts like that came to mind, and that made me feel much better.

Thank goodness I know about the Law of Attraction and how it “works” because without it I’d probably still be sad and attracting more sad circumstances and experiences.

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If you’re interested in Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to set it up, or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

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Law of Attraction and Keeping Your Focus

Law of Attraction and Keeping Your Focus

When it comes the Law of Attraction, one of the ways to keep it working in your favor is to focus (think about) on what you want, instead of on what you don’t want.  This is because it is law that like attracts like.  So, what you focus on is what you’re going to attract.

However, why does it seem so easy to suddenly find yourself lost in thoughts about why something isn’t happening, or why something is taking so long to happen?  I think it’s because it’s what we’re used to doing.  We’re used to using our current reality as a measuring point of what’s going on.  After all, if I’m still not attracting more money, or my dream job, or my soul mate, I must be doing something wrong, is what we’re most likely getting lost in thought about.

It’s kind of like a trap in the sense that we’re supposed to focus on what we want, but when our reality isn’t that, it’s alot to ask to ignore current reality so we can focus on what we want.  However, even though it is alot to ask and it may even seem strange at first, it’s imperative that we do just that!  We attract what we think about, so we have to think about abundance, how our dream job would feel if we had it, and how wonderful it would be to find true love (or whatever it is you’ve been wanting to attract).

The Good News

The good news is that though we can get lost in thinking about what we don’t want, it takes just a second to start re-focusing on what we do want.  Once we re-focus, it gets easier to keep focusing on what we want, and when we do, we can actually feel the improved feeling.

So the next time you find yourself thinking about something that hasn’t happened for you, remember that it’s not serving you to think about it in that way, so just flip your thoughts to what you do want, and why you want it, and not only will you enjoy feeling better, but what you want will be on its way!

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it.

You can attract what you want!

The Best Version of Yourself…

The Best Version of Yourself…

Wouldn’t it be great if you could be the best version of yourself?  Maybe you’d like to be more confident or feel that what you say and do has value?  Maybe you’d like to make healthier choices and better decisions?  Maybe you’d like to be more relaxed and confident socially?  Maybe you’d like to be more honest?

Whatever the qualities are, we all have traits and feelings that we’d like to have fulfilled, that would make us a better person.

The good news is that we can take action so we can start becoming the best versions of ourselves.

How Do I Become The Best Version of Myself?

A great way to start becoming the best version of yourself is to make a list of all the qualities that you think would make you the best version of yourself.  Once you have your list, then daily say affirmations that support you being those qualities.

For example, let’s say that on your list you have these qualities written down: “more confident, calmer and more social at parties, feel happier, feel like I have value, be my ideal weight, do work that I love.”

To affirm these wonderful qualities that you’d like to have, simply start by saying out loud, or thinking: “I am willing to be more confident” “I am willing to be calmer and more social at parties” “I am willing to feel happier” ” I am willing to feel like I have value” “I am willing to be my ideal weight” “I am willing to do work that I love.”

By affirming these statements every day, they start getting into your subconscious mind.  Once they are firmly planted there, you will start noticing at some point that you do feel more how you want, and you are becoming more like you want to be.

So spend some time making your list of what the best version of yourself would be, and then enjoy affirming those qualities every day.

Here’s to you becoming the best version of yourself that you can be!

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!

Law of Attraction and the Slot Machine (again)

Law of Attraction and the Slot Machine (again)

I had once written a blog post about going to the casino.  I now have another great post about going to the casino and playing slot machine.  Of course, I went from a Law of Attraction point-of-view and boy did I win!

I decided on the way to the casino that I was just going to focus on how fun it will be to play the slots, and how I’m always lucky.  By doing this I was putting myself in the vibration of winning.

When I first got there I played a new machine.  It was called something like “Phoenix Princess.”  I could win by either getting the bonus, or it also had a random bonus where a phoenix would rise up across the screen and make certain columns wild.

I sat at the machine with my high vibration and only 3 spins in, I got the bonus!  During the bonus I kept winning, but on one spin the entire screen filled with the princess.  That bonus paid $400!  What a great way to start playing the slot machines.

As the night went on the more typical thing happened where I won, I lost, I won, etc.

Another slot machine win!

However, at the end of the nigh when everyone was ready to leave, I had time to play one more machine.  There was a fun machine I played before called something like “Wild Unicorns.”  So I sat at the machine and took a more proactive stance and thought “I want to get the bonus, I want to get the bonus.”  A few spins later I got the bonus!  During the bonus I kept thinking “I want the entire screen to fill with unicorns!”  I kept thinking that because I figured that would pay out the most.  Guess what, a few spins in during the bonus the entire screen filled with unicorns!  It was amazing.  That bonus paid out $420!

What a fun and successful time I had at the casino.

Thank you Law of Attraction!

If you are considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just to go http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it, or you can contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!

Your Law of Attraction Web

Your Law of Attraction Web

When it comes to the Law of Attraction it’s not always about manifesting something you want in the moment.  Sometimes I have done that.  For example, one time it snowed very deep and I needed help shoveling the bottom of the driveway because the snow plows made a huge wall right at the bottom.  I stood there thinking “I really need help with this, I’m asking for someone to help.”  Literally a few minutes later, a guy drove buy with his truck which had a snow plow attached to it.  He saw me and stopped the truck, rolled down his window and said “Can I plow the bottom of your driveway for you?”  That was such a nice and quick manifestation.

However, when something doesn’t manifest quickly, it’s important to do your best to focus on what you want and keep yourself at a high vibration about what you want so that you’ll set yourself up to attract it.  The minute you start doubting it will happen, then you’re putting yourself at a low vibration.

Here’s how to make your LOA web.

Think of it like a spider’s web.  Every time you think about what you want you’re adding to your web of manifestation.  Every time you deliberately keep yourself at a raised vibration and feeling good, you’re adding to the web of manifestation.  The more thoughts and high vibrations you have in your web of manifestation, the stronger your web is and what you want will stick to it and manifest for you.

But, every time you feel lack or think you can’t have something, you’re breaking the web and allowing what you want to fall through.

So start focusing on what you want, and feeling good so your web of attraction will be strong and you’ll start attracting what you want.

I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session for someone who’s considering Law of Attraction coaching.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!

An alarm attached to your thoughts?

An alarm attached to your thoughts?

What you focus on and give your attention to, is what you’re going to attract.  A good way to find out if you’re focusing on what you want is to ask yourself “If an alarm was attached to my thoughts and it went off every time I thought about something negative, how often would it be going off?”

For most people, that alarm would be going off alot!  What about for you?  That answer gives you a good idea of if you’re focusing on what you want or not.

How to stop that thought alarm from going off.

One easy way to help you focus more on what you want (and stop that alarm from going off) is when you catch yourself thinking about what you don’t want, just ask yourself “What do I want?” about whatever it was you were thinking about, and then start focusing on that.

Once you know what you want, do your best to stay focused on it so that you can attract it.  The more you focus on what you want, the more you will attract it, it’s the law.

It’s also a great idea to randomly get used to asking yourself “What do I want?” about various areas of your life because it forces you to think about what you want, over what you don’t want.

So don’t let that thought alarm go off – do your best to focus on what you want, what you want, what you want.

Remember, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.