People always ask me if they are trying to change by improving how they think and feel, do they have to let go of their friends who are more negative. The answer to this is yes and no! Obviously we can’t run from everyone because even though some people we know may be more negative, they may still have some good qualities we like about them. However, that being said, there may be some people we know who really are “toxic” and are so negative that it would be a good idea to greatly distance ourselves from them. A good idea when it comes to people we don’t want to totally distance ourselves from is to just limit our time with them. Maybe we only spend an hour with them instead of 3 hours. Or, maybe when we call them to chat if the conversation starts to veer towards negativity we do our best to change the subject. The reason for all this is because when it comes to the Law of Attraction, since it’s always responding to us, giving us more circumstances and situations that match our vibration, we want to spend more time at a higher vibration. A higher vibration feels good and that’s where we want to be as much as possible. When we keep ourselves at a higher vibration then we attract more experiences that are high vibration experiences. We’ll even attract people who are more positive, and some of our friends who are more low vibration will fade away because they can tell you’re not a match with them anymore. It’s also important to know that once we know how to deliberately keep ourselves at a raised vibration, lower vibration people won’t effect us as much because we’re feeling too good.
True Happiness comes from within – it’s not circumstantial. Of course when something good happens for us, it can make us happy in the moment. But, after a short amount of time the high from that wears off. However, if we learn how to be truly happy from within, and we are really feeling that way, Law of Attraction can’t help but bring us circumstances and experiences that support us feeling happy. So next time we realize we’re not feeling happy, we have to do something about it! Reach for better thoughts, do something fun, take control of our happiness without it depending on outside factors. Once we do that, not only will we feel better in general, we’ll really notice how we are more in control of being happy than we thought.
A lot of people resonate with the Law of Attraction but they don’t know how to use it in their daily lives. I get a lot of calls/emails from people who have watched The Secret, or heard information about the Law of Attraction, and it makes sense to them. However, even though it makes sense to them, then they’re like “now what?”
It’s very easy to understand the basic definition of Law of Attraction which is “like energy attracts like energy.” However, even if you understand that, it doesn’t mean you know what to do to attract what you want into your life.
Attracting what you want is for both material things, as well as knowing how to deliberately keep yourself feeling good, so you’ll attract more feel good experiences into your life. It’s also about making better decisions and handling life situations in the best way possible.
The good news is that once you work with an experienced Law of Attraction life coach, you’ll find out about processes and techniques that you can use daily to keep the Law of Attraction working in your favor. It’s kind of like when you read a self-help book but you don’t actually do what the author says, so you don’t really benefit from the information. The same holds true with the Law of Attraction. You can know about it, and even agree with it, but until you practice various processes that help keep you focused and excited about what you are wanting, you won’t benefit from it.
For example, a client of mine was looking to make a career change but nothing was happening. She even knew where she wanted to work. Then she started using some of the processes she learned, and within a few weeks “out of the blue” a customer of hers revealed where he worked, and it turned out to be the exact place that she wanted to work! She told her customer that, and he didn’t hesitate to give her vital information on how to get the job she wanted.
Of course this didn’t just happen “out of the blue.” By doing the processes, she lessened her resistance to what she was wanting, and as a result Law of Attraction made it happen. Law of Attraction is happening in your real life every day. The question is, are you attracting what you want, or what you don’t want?
If you’re attracting what you don’t want and/or want to know how to handle life situations int he best way possible, it’s time you learn how to start attracting what you do want! The good news is that It just gets better when you live your life from a Law of Attraction point-of-view.
Choose to have a great day.
Life Coach David
Are you one of those people who thinks that one of the reasons we’re here is to enjoy life?
I don’t know about you, but I am!
I think it’s important to do something every day that you enjoy, that’s fun, and/or that makes you feel good.
It can be easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget that experiencing joy is a right that we all have.
The good thing is that no matter how busy you are, there’s something you can do to have a joyful experience. At a minimum you can laugh about something funny that you experienced in the past. I like doing that because when I think of something funny that happened to me, I instantly start laughing again about it. One of my experiences that I like to think about is the time that I went with my friend Lynn to a serious movie, and we were in a fun mood and were laughing throughout the movie at scenes that weren’t supposed to be funny!
Of course if you have more time, just doing something you consider fun is a great way to experience joy.
Hopefully this post is a reminder to go out of your way to have fun, to laugh, to do something you enjoy so that you can enjoy your life. And remember, when it comes to Law of Attraction, the more you do to experience joy, the more joyful experiences and circumstances you’ll attract!
So go enjoy doing something!
Life Coach David