Law of Attraction and Keeping Your Focus

Law of Attraction and Keeping Your Focus

When it comes the Law of Attraction, one of the ways to keep it working in your favor is to focus (think about) on what you want, instead of on what you don’t want.  This is because it is law that like attracts like.  So, what you focus on is what you’re going to attract.

However, why does it seem so easy to suddenly find yourself lost in thoughts about why something isn’t happening, or why something is taking so long to happen?  I think it’s because it’s what we’re used to doing.  We’re used to using our current reality as a measuring point of what’s going on.  After all, if I’m still not attracting more money, or my dream job, or my soul mate, I must be doing something wrong, is what we’re most likely getting lost in thought about.

It’s kind of like a trap in the sense that we’re supposed to focus on what we want, but when our reality isn’t that, it’s alot to ask to ignore current reality so we can focus on what we want.  However, even though it is alot to ask and it may even seem strange at first, it’s imperative that we do just that!  We attract what we think about, so we have to think about abundance, how our dream job would feel if we had it, and how wonderful it would be to find true love (or whatever it is you’ve been wanting to attract).

The Good News

The good news is that though we can get lost in thinking about what we don’t want, it takes just a second to start re-focusing on what we do want.  Once we re-focus, it gets easier to keep focusing on what we want, and when we do, we can actually feel the improved feeling.

So the next time you find yourself thinking about something that hasn’t happened for you, remember that it’s not serving you to think about it in that way, so just flip your thoughts to what you do want, and why you want it, and not only will you enjoy feeling better, but what you want will be on its way!

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it.

You can attract what you want!

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Law of Attraction and What We Want

Law of Attraction and What We Want

Every day there are so many things we have to focus on, and to do.  We make decisions about what clothes we’re going to wear.  We think about what foods to eat throughout the day.  We make decisions about work related issues.  However, how often are we focusing on and thinking about what we want?

We know that the basics of Law of Attraction tells us that we get what we’re focusing on.  So, isn’t it important that just as much as we think about all the things we have to do in a day, we also deliberately spend time thinking about what we want to attract?  The answer is an undeniable “YES!”

Of course we have to spend time thinking about and focusing on what we want.  We have to spend time reaching for thoughts that keep us feeling good as well.  The perfect scenario would be that we’re spending more time thinking about what we want than on “what is” – so that what we want becomes our “what is.”

What we want or what is?  It’s a choice.

It’s easy to spend our time focusing on “what is” because that’s what we’re experiencing, that’s what we can see.  However, even though that’s what we’re currently experiencing, if we want to experience an improved situation (whatever that me be for you), we have to focus on what that improved situation would be so we can attract it.

Hopefully this is a reminder, or if you’re new to Law of Attraction, a good explanation of why we have to spend time thinking about and focusing on what we want, without letting our current situation deter us from doing that.

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!

The Best Version of Yourself…

The Best Version of Yourself…

Wouldn’t it be great if you could be the best version of yourself?  Maybe you’d like to be more confident or feel that what you say and do has value?  Maybe you’d like to make healthier choices and better decisions?  Maybe you’d like to be more relaxed and confident socially?  Maybe you’d like to be more honest?

Whatever the qualities are, we all have traits and feelings that we’d like to have fulfilled, that would make us a better person.

The good news is that we can take action so we can start becoming the best versions of ourselves.

How Do I Become The Best Version of Myself?

A great way to start becoming the best version of yourself is to make a list of all the qualities that you think would make you the best version of yourself.  Once you have your list, then daily say affirmations that support you being those qualities.

For example, let’s say that on your list you have these qualities written down: “more confident, calmer and more social at parties, feel happier, feel like I have value, be my ideal weight, do work that I love.”

To affirm these wonderful qualities that you’d like to have, simply start by saying out loud, or thinking: “I am willing to be more confident” “I am willing to be calmer and more social at parties” “I am willing to feel happier” ” I am willing to feel like I have value” “I am willing to be my ideal weight” “I am willing to do work that I love.”

By affirming these statements every day, they start getting into your subconscious mind.  Once they are firmly planted there, you will start noticing at some point that you do feel more how you want, and you are becoming more like you want to be.

So spend some time making your list of what the best version of yourself would be, and then enjoy affirming those qualities every day.

Here’s to you becoming the best version of yourself that you can be!

If you’re considering Law of Attraction coaching, I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com to schedule it or contact me at david@lifecoachdavid.com.

You can attract what you want!