Law of Attraction and Relationships

Law of Attraction and Relationships

Believe it or not, relationships and the Law of Attraction have alot to do with each other.  When I use the word “relationships,” to me there are three types.  (1) There’s the relationship you have with yourself; (2) the relationship(s) you have with other people, and (3) the relationship you have, or want to have, with a love interest.

Are your relationships what you want?

The thoughts and therefore the vibrations you’re putting out about all 3 types of relationships is exactly what you’re experiencing.

Have you ever even thought about the relationship you have with yourself?  Are you good to yourself, kind to yourself, or do you put yourself down?  Think about it and if need be take action to improve the relationship you have with yourself.

What about the relationships you have with other people?  Do you enjoy them, criticize them, or go out of your way to make them good?  If you think you can improve them, choose to do that.

And, of course, where are you thoughts about finding true love, or if you have found it, are you enjoying it, or complaining about it?  Make sure you’re focusing on what you want.  And, if you’re looking for your soul mate, focus on the qualities you want them to have.

If you really take the time to ask yourself the above questions, it’s a great start to finding out where your thoughts/vibrations are when it comes to relationships.

Once you’re honest with yourself about where you stand, then you can start using Law of Attraction processes to start attracting the kind of relationships you really want, in all areas of your life, including with yourself!

 

Remember I always offer a free first mini phone coaching session.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

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The Thought Meter . . .

The Thought Meter

It would be so cool if there was a thought meter that would count how many thoughts we have throughout an entire day.  To take it one step further, it would be even better if the meter would print out a report at the end of the day with two columns.  Column one would be called “Negative Thoughts” and column two would be called “Positive Thoughts.”  Then, under each column it would print out what those thoughts were.  I have a feeling the “Negative Thought” column would have a lot more thoughts on it than the positive thought column!

When you stop to think about it, we’re always thinking about something. Are you usually thinking about questions like these:  why “something” went wrong? why don’t I have enough of “something”? why did this happen? why did that happen? why didn’t he do what he said he would do? why am I still doing what I don’t want to do? I’m afraid of what my future holds, I’m worried about “something”, will I ever fall in love? and on and on and on?

With all these negative thoughts running through your head all day long, it’s no surprise that all these thoughts mentioned above (and others along those lines) are still what’s manifesting for you.

Changing Your Thoughts

The good news is that you can choose to take control of your thoughts little by little, day by day, thought by thought.

One way to do this is that when you find yourself thinking a negative thought, literally ask yourself “what do I want?”  Once you know what you want (which is usually the opposite of the negative thought you were thinking) and you start focusing on what you want, then eventually what you want will become what is.  The trick is that you have to practice asking yourself that question “What do I want?” over and over.

Eventually, with practice, more and more of your thoughts will be about what you want, instead of what you don’t want.  Oh what a joyous day that will be.  If there really was a Thought Meter, wouldn’t it be wonderful if eventually the positive thought side was much greater than the negative thought side?

It sounds easy enough, but will you really do it?  I hope so!

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

 

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

Do you have to know how something will manifest?

The question of the day is “Do you have to know how something you want is going to manifest?”

The answer is “no!”

When it comes to working with the Law of Attraction, so many people get caught up in trying to figure out, or having to know how something they want is going to manifest that it just keeps it from happening.  This is because these types of thoughts are all about resistance, and resistance blocks manifestation.

They think thoughts like “I want to go on a cruise, but how is the money going to come?” or “I really want to buy that house, but it’s $30,000 more than I can afford” or “I want to be in a relationship, but it seems so hard to meet someone.”

The solution to having to know…

The good news is that it’s not your job to figure out how something you want is going to happen.  As hard as that may be for you to believe, it’s the truth.

Your job is to match the vibration of whatever it is you’re wanting, and then allow the Law of Attraction to deliver it without getting caught up in the how or when.

Because, once you get caught up in the how (or when), you start putting up resistance, and it’s the resistance that blocks the manifestation.

That’s why I use the processes I use with my clients (and with myself), because when you use them, you’re lessening the resistance to whatever it is you’re wanting and allowing your vibration to raise so you can match whatever it is you’re wanting.

Once you experience doing this, you really start to get it and that’s when positive changes start to occur.

It’s wonderful when you start to live your life from a Law of Attraction point of view.

Remember I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session, so feel free to take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

 

Law of Attraction talk…

Law of Attraction talk…

Every day when you wake up you start thinking about something, and of course thoughts come and go throughout the day.  Some of the thoughts you’re thinking are negative (low vibration), and some are positive (high vibration).

However, most people go about their day as a victim to their thoughts.  If something good happens they’re in a good mood and will think what a great day they’re having.  If something bad happens they’ll most likely think what a bad day they’re having.  It sounds simple, but it’s the truth.

But the real question is “How often is the Law of Attraction effecting your life?”  Is it sometimes or only when you think about it?  The Law of Attraction is effecting your life all the time, whether you’re aware that it is or not.  It’s giving you more of what you’re thinking about and focusing on regardless if it’s “good” or “bad.”  If you’re thinking about it, you’re going to get more of whatever that is.

You can choose to improve your thoughts

The good news is that you don’t have to be a victim to your thoughts and emotions.  You can choose to do something about it so you can feel excited about your life all the time and start attracting more of what you want.  Even if you’re feeling very low, you can still reach for a thought that help you feels a little better.  A little better is better than where you were.  Then, as the day goes on you can reach for better thoughts that will help you eventually return to feeling really good.

But, you have to start to becoming more aware of how you’re thinking about what you’re thinking about, and when you find you’re thinking about something negative, flip that thought to the opposite, positive thought, and then focus on that (as opposed to staying stuck thinking about the negative).

For example, if you find you’re thinking about how you don’t have enough money, start to think about how you have plenty of money and get excited about how that would feel.  It doesn’t matter if you don’t have excess money because the Law of Attraction is responding to your higher vibration about money, and will start to make things happen in your life so that you’ll start attracting more money.

So the next time you feel like you’re not as happy as you could be, start deliberately reaching for better thoughts until you make yourself happy again.  It takes practice, but with time and awareness, you can master feeling happy more often than not.

There are also alot of processes I teach my clients which helps them achieve this, so if you’d like to experience Law of Attraction coaching, know that the first mini phone coaching session is free.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com.

 

What do you want?

What do you want?

How often are you actually thinking about what you want?

I hope the answer is as often as possible.  Sometimes it can be easy, because of habit, to think about all the reasons why you don’t have something you want.  Or, maybe you think it’s too hard or out of the question to manifest something, so you just forget about it.

Do you realize how amazing it would be if you spent all that time thinking about what you don’t want, and instead thought about what you do want?  That would serve you in so well in several ways.  First of all you’ll keep yourself at a higher vibration.  When you do that, you’re not only feeling better, you’re automatically attracting more of what you want because the Law of Attraction will set up experiences and circumstances that are high vibration.  I don’t know about you, but I want as many high vibration experiences coming my way as possible!

Secondly, by thinking more about what you do want, you’ll start attracting it into your life which is the outcome you really want.

I understand that sometimes it can feel hard to focus on what you want over what you don’t want.  But believe me, when you deliberately start doing that, and you get used to it, you’ll really feel the difference and how important it is to do that.  It just takes time and practice, but it’s well worth it.

Ask yourself throughout the day “What am I focusing on?” and if need be, improve what you’re focusing on.

Have fun practicing this!

Keep in mind that I always offer a first free mini phone coaching session.  So feel free to take me up on it.  Just go to http://www.lifecoachdavid.com